What if the story holding you, isn't even yours?

So many of us live in default-mode - Bound by fear, shame, and judgment, repeating stories that aren't even ours.

Ruma Biswas

Archetypal & Systemic Constellations Coach / Facilitator

My work invites you to lead from presence
— authentic, sovereign, and easeful —
so that life itself becomes your field of mastery.

For the longest time, I called myself a leadership coach — it felt like the acceptable label, the safe one that wouldn’t make me an outcast. I even taught professional coaches how to coach. But truthfully, my heart was elsewhere — in poring over birth charts, tracing invisible patterns in leaders, and questing into the deeper matters of the soul.

Coaching leaders across industries — and even religious leadership — I discovered that coaching could take you far, but only up to a point. Beyond that, the terrain shifted — from goals to relationships, from strategy to soul. I learnt to coach relationship systems, and yet, I could still feel something deeper calling. That’s when systemic family constellations entered my life — and with it, a profound “soul’ar” journey for both me and those I work with.

Over time, I realized the question isn’t “What is the right choice?” but “What serves the higher good?”

The shaping of my destiny was set in motion years ago, as the only woman in my Mechanical Engineering class. Thereafter, I've paid homage to the corporate world with almost 20 years of my life, while finding myself accidentally on the threshold of entrepreneurship. My journey has taken me across the US, Europe, Africa, Hong Kong, India, and Singapore — and, more importantly, through the inner worlds of extraordinary people.

My work today is for those who seek transformation, not fixes — for individuals and organizations ready to lead consciously, courageously, and in wholeness. Oh and yes... Get ready for me to read your birth chart for your fate-destiny archetypes - that's the first discovery session!

My philosophy is simple

Life isn't random - It is organised through archetypal cycles of time

We awaken as we re-member the forgotten parts and let the inner voice lead the way home.

My Methods

Discover your map of meaning (your birth chart)

This is where your journey begins.

In an immersive two-hour session, we uncover the archetypal patterns that shape your purpose, destiny, and recurring life themes.

You’ll see where your energy flows freely — and where it resists.

Together, we’ll name your deeper intention and set a clear direction for the journey ahead, one that feels true to your soul’s calling and your leadership path.

Free what's been holding you

Insight alone isn’t enough.

True change happens when the invisible loyalties and inherited stories are released.

In 1:1 constellations, we travel through your ancestral field — tracing the unseen threads that bind you to pain, duty, or limitation.

With compassion and reverence, we work to restore balance, freeing not only you, but the generations before and after you, to move forward with ease and flow.

Integrate the inner and the outer

Transformation doesn’t end with insight — it deepens through practice.

In these 1:1 coaching sessions, I help you bring your inner shifts into your relationships, work, and leadership.

Together, we hold space for your growth to take root — helping you stay attuned to your inner voice, navigate change with clarity, and lead with authenticity in the world around you.

My vision is to create a small, committed circle that gathers every Saturday for two hours — where we constellate one client and, in doing so, work with the collective field we all share.

This is where individual healing meets collective transformation — where your personal story becomes a thread in something larger.

The logistics are being finalised, but this vision will soon be a living, breathing space for deep systemic work.

Watch this space… the field is forming.

Archetypal Reading

Systemic Family Constellation

Relationship Systems Coaching

Systemic Group Constellations

The Collective Field

The 4 pillars of the ARUM

A — Authenticity
Helping you make meaning of the invisible patterns that shape your life and leadership — so you can lead from a place of truth, not conditioning.

R — Rhythm
Guiding you to reconnect with your natural rhythm — the pace and pulse that allow your creativity and clarity to flow.

U — Unknown
Inviting you to engage with the unseen — your archetypes, your lineage, and the unconscious — so you can lead with insight, not fear.

M — Meaning (Meta-Quest)
Supporting you in translating inner growth into outer alignment — integrating purpose into how you live, lead, and make choices.

The ARUM is not a method. It’s a movement — from reaction to awareness, from striving to flow, from separation to wholeness.

It invites leaders and seekers alike to remember that life, when lived consciously, always reveals its deeper order.

The ARUM - a mirror to life itself!

It reflects the paradox of existence — where beauty and decay, purity and shadow, creation and destruction all coexist as part of one living rhythm.

Symbolically, the Arum plant holds the duality of life within its form.
Its arrow-shaped flower represents fertility and purity, while its base — known to trap insects — speaks to the necessary endings and transformations that sustain life.

To live The ARUM is to accept that light and dark are not opposites, but partners in evolution.

"Ruma's archetypal astrology reading was amazing! Highly encourage people to do one! It was illuminating and a different approach than other astrology readings I've had! Including insights on purpose, destiny vs fate, mother wound etc."

Safi - Psychotherapist

"Ruma has been my coach for 1 year as I was transitioning through a very critical period in my life and leadership. She held my feet to the fire - her wisdom and her insights were exactly the medicine I needed"

Alice S - Regional CEO in a global BFSI firm

"Over the past 1.5 years, Ruma has worked with me and my team to push us in directions we did not imagine possible. The world of spirituality is not new for us and she made it practical for us in our leadership"

Steve F - Provincial Leader of a religious congregation

"We invited Ruma to be our team coach as the leadership team was transitioning into the next phase. What she did over a year is give each of our brilliance a makeover with her soul wisdom and ARUM approach"

Ajay B - MD of a chemical manufacturing company

Testimonials

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